I wrote a six-part Instagram series detailing how I met and started dating Kendra. This formed the basis for some of the material included in Chapter 9. If you want to check that out, including a few hilarious screenshots of text exchanges I had with her and a few friends, here are Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, Part 4, Part 5, and Part 6, which shares the video we made on our first date, the one where I say, “I swear I’m not like other guys, but I do want to know what your lips taste like.”

Additionally, if you want to see the follow-up video five years later, where I proposed to her, here it is: